Small hurdles are an annoyance. The final goal should be kept in mind. When one is clear of the destination to be reached, I think sound decisions are made.
Nothing lasts for ever. People move away, apartment leases run out, plants die, friends stop being friends, depression and anxiety become part of life.
Love is a myth. A good one, while it lasts. One has to work at it, to make it what they want it to be.
Hard work is the root of all successes. Nothing bad has ever come out of good effort.
There is a difference between actions and intentions. One should learn to see the difference. It is not easy.
It is not easy to embrace novelty. One can never know, if it is worth the effort unless one tries.