Yours and mine.

Do you react to someone the way you know how, or the way you think would be acceptable by them?

Our behavior is masked by our own window of perspective but what influences our interaction?  How important is the need to be appropriate versus the need to be acceptable?

Do we forget that it is okay to be ourselves, whether acceptable or not.  Sometimes, another perspective is actually a good thing.

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3 responses to “Yours and mine.

  1. >> the way you know how, or the way you think would be acceptable by them?

    maybe a mix of both?

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  2. TAK:
    We probably do a mixture of both. We like being liked. But really, is that essential? Some times can we just speak our mind?

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  3. Do you react to someone the way you know how, or the way you think would be acceptable by them?

    >> if I know the person, its natural, if not its well planned to be neutral.. acceptable to them and me..

    Appropriate is social norm but I feel we should also keep things pleasant for us.. if its acceptable and not pleasant, personally, I would not bother and I have not..

    Hmmm.. its ok to be ourselves… else we are living someone’s else’s lives and doing things which we dont want and what someone else wants..
    result : unhappiness and conflict..

    why go there.. do as much as you can.. leave the rest..
    To me everything as a minimum and a maximum and over that..

    What is not acceptable but a must : I do it minimum.. with no expectations.. rest is according to what makes me happy..

    Maximum is also not good.. 🙂

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