It is one thing to dream, quite another to get up and do something about it.
It is an absolutely different ball game to help some one else achieve their dream.
I have never been fond of the phrase ” It will be fine” Eventually everything does turn out fine. Probably we get used to the situation that it appears we are fine. Real help would be for some one to show a way around the problem. Unfortunately what works for one does not work for another. Then there is always ego.
Not reaching out for help can be part ego. Could also be part denial. Accepting a problem, a short coming, a neglected fact needs a certain degree of humility. Most times we are fighting so hard against the failures we experience that not much is left within us. It has never been easy accepting defeat.
In a situation like that just a little push can change your world for ever. The right amount; not too over bearing, not superficial either. How does one know the right amount, I haven’t figured out yet. All I know when someone is doing it right, it shows.