It is not easy to deal with failure. It is even harder to introspect over the cause. Especially if some where down the line, we know we are responsible.

How much do we want something, is the pertinent question. Every one faces rejection. Question is how does one let such rejections reflect on oneself.

Self doubt is imminent. Inertia avoidable. It is a vicious circle. How does one break that cycle. Some times waiting for the right moment is a wait too long. Moments come and go. How does one make the best of it.

How does one tell oneself, yesterday is gone. Tomorrow is another day. Today is all you have control over.

Reflect, react,and hopefully rejoice.



Filed under A first, Abstract, Confusion, Disappointments, Expectations, Experiences, Goal, Motivation, Personal, Questions., Resolutions, Thoughts

6 responses to “Reflections.

  1. well, i guess its with time you learn to stand up and fight back. it’s with time you start seeing failure as a challenge.
    the sooner you learn, the more you grow.


  2. Don’t look at it as failing. Not everything is attainable.

    as you said it’s a cycle – it goes the whole way you live it, change it but not break it.

    moments are what you make them – spend to long worrying about moments gone and you’ve already lost the chance to make the most of them.

    I find that circumstances and time teaches me that the hard way (well in most instances)

    Don’t ponder too much – onwards and upwards doc!


  3. D

    Self doubt may be imminent but it need not be permanent. And as long as it temporary and inertia remains avoidable, everything will be alright. Onwards and upwards!


  4. Failure teach us a lot of things like doing better next time, changing our plans, etc. But one thing that I like about failing is it makes us more human—more compassionate, more forgiving, and more humble.


  5. Correction: Failure teaches us…. ๐Ÿ™‚


  6. First.. Hugsssssssssssssssssssss !!

    And reality is that this too shall pass.. first accept that this has not gone well .. then burrow your head and just sleep or divert yourself.. be like the turtle.. go inside your inner space.. take time.. and then after a while.. come out refreshed.. ๐Ÿ™‚

    The more important thing is that all failures are valuable.. lessons.. and treat it as such. giving it too much importance.. will make you morbid and go round and round without seeing the solution or the bigger picture..

    Treat it as a lesson and you will definitely see more options.. which you would not have seen had you walked the preplanned path.. that is why we stumble so that we discover new paths..

    Keep strong.. ๐Ÿ™‚


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