They say whatever happens happens for the best.We sure hope so.Eventually life does turn out OK.Or bearable if you please.We do live.A lot of times we actually live well.
We know all that by our own experience.Then why is it so tough to be rational, positive and OK when we suffer a set back.It is hard to keep telling yourself that you will be fine.At that instance you see no way out.Hope some where the light will shine.We hope.We wait.As we believe.
And when you finally see the light you wonder what was all that whining all about. So many times we don’t realise, but people, circumstances and ‘others’ dictate our lives, our moods, our productivity our feel good factor.
Taking charge of my own life gives me a lot of strength.Telling myself each morning that I am beautiful, good and better than what they would want me to believe can be a struggle but I do it anyway.Most times I believe myself, some times it is not so easy to believe even me.