Knowing who your friends are…

So she is the girl’s(anyone’s) best friend kind.Always there.Always the first one to know.Always up for coffee.Hell she is as sweet as the coffee.She can turn bitter, only to stimulate those neurons like they haven’t been in a few days.The tingling that reminds you that you are alive.You like her presence.She makes you feel warm.Cared for.Loved.She makes you gentle,calm, composed.There is something to look out for.The sun looks brighter, the rain romantic.There is no pain, because she knows how to take the pain away.She has a knack of making things better.She makes life worth it.I doubt there is any life without her.

He is the best friend every girl (one) should have.You know he loves you, even if he doesn’t show it.He cares, hence he is around.He always comes back, even when you think he never will.He supports you, even in his absence.You feel his presence around, though you might not be able to see him.He makes you uncomfortable, when he looks straight at you.He often reminds you of your limits.And you hate him for it, because you really want to let lose.He doesn’t let you.He is the one you can depend on to knock some sense into you.It hurts alright, but you love him for it.Its because of him, you hold you head high.You do the right thing.You maintain you dignity.Its because of him, you are a stronger better person.You can face the world,even when he is not holding your hand.

And no this post isn’t for you,or because of you, and the difficult conversations that we have finally had.I was referring to Hope and Closure..

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31 responses to “Knowing who your friends are…

  1. I want to meet that girl. Could you please arrange that?

    Thank you,

    Sincerely,
    (ahem)

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  2. Closure may be necessary, but I have never found it fun. Hope is… well, hope.

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  3. She makes life worth it.I doubt there is any life without her.
    Is she single??
    and looking??
    Kindly pass on ma contact details to her asap. GOD BLESS YOU in advance!!

    🙂

    I was referring to Hope and Closure..
    What the…..

    :X

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  4. Are this two preson for real ?

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  5. heh heh…think i liked the last 2 lines the best…..

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  6. Vikram:
    Sorry not sharing my hope with you.Find your own…:p

    Sometimes Saintly Nick:
    No its never fun to achieve closure,but like you said;some times it is necessary.

    Arz000n:
    Oops!……….:D

    Green:
    Whaddya think?

    Ash:
    Thanks, and you have a great weekend.

    Lazyleo:
    Thanks….:)

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  7. nice one dear…
    i have two 😉

    Cheers

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  8. Let me sing u a small jingle
    With world best way to mingle,
    dear friend is to remain single.

    —By u rs truly.

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  9. Really not in the frame of mind to try and get to the depth of that one 😦 Maybe I’ll write a proper comment when I can! Right now, i’ll restrict myself to ‘May the Force be with you’

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  10. Ash

    day by day i am increasingly becomeing amazed by ur ideas girl ……..
    keep it up!!
    yo EU

    have a wonderful weekend
    Ash

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  11. I’ve a friend who’s always ‘up for coffee’. And it feels awesome to have company. 😛

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  12. hi

    nice 1

    bye

    take care

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  13. cant find words … well written.

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  14. Um, er…ahem…In other words, I have no words…So I’ll take the easy way out and say ‘nice post!’.

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  15. Puneet:
    Thanks..:)

    S-E-J:
    Getting poetic are we???

    Obiwan:
    Thanks, everything alright?

    Rohit:
    You bet it does.

    Jigal:
    Thanks….:)

    Mowgli:
    Thank-you.

    Wishfulthinker:
    Um er ahem, thats not convincing.Wishfulthinker and run out of words???Is that a nice way of saying your post has no substance.I have nothing to add to it…:(

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  16. I like the attitude Educatedunemployed. Yeeha! Chin up and give yourself a pat in the back. You deserve a breather and who knows someone much better comes along. Life is full of happy surprises, you know. Good luck!

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  17. NO! That comment was just what it was. It was not meant to say that your post has no substance. Anything that I might add to it, would be like another post only instead of a comment. And god knows there are enough and more posts like that of mine. 😀

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  18. Abaniko:
    Thanks,I will look forward to the said surprises…..:)

    Wishfulthinker:
    I don’t think you realise, some people enjoy reading what you have to say,even if it was said before.

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  19. Those 2 you wrote about should get together. If they dont, ill gladly volunteer to intervene.

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  20. Dwaipayan:
    I am going to assume you meant good one, and say thanks.

    Archster:
    Yeah they kinda complement each other na?I so wish I could see them getting along though, they only so often cross paths.

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  21. hey ..chek the answer 2 ur comment on my blog..n i cant make sense wht closure is

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  22. hi,

    whats up with u ? Howz life ?

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  23. Kapil:
    Been there, read that.Good, cause it isn’t really nice to be in a situation where you might actually need closure.

    Ashish Pokharna:
    *bows*
    Arre Bade sahaab ayen hain..
    All good here with the lesser mortals.Thanks.

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  24. yeh!!!i meant it’s a good one…..

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  25. Beautifully written 🙂

    Closure, I appreciate. I cant understand how people can go on without it.

    But hope… the pessimist in me sometimes refuses to see hope.

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  26. Dwaipayan:
    I understand you dude..

    Casablanca:
    Thanks.However harsh,I like looking closure in the eye too.

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  27. yes, and if that girl is in india, introduce her. please

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  28. I know I like hope, but closure, well he can be a little unforgiving. I guess long conversations are all about the two of them aren’t they now.

    Well it’s always really good to know your friends are around when you need them for these long conversations.

    luv.J.

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  29. Japna:
    True,having friends in itself is a blessing.

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