07.13.06

Lets talk me and I

Posted in Life at 2:16 pm by det-res

Have you ever embarked on a journey towards your goal,only to realise that was the hardest and longest route.You wonder if the goal will ever be reached, but then tell yourself, it is really the journey that counts.As today your experience makes you far richer, than you were when you started off.

Have you ever shuffled the pages of your old diaries and wondered, where did all those that have filled those pages disappear.Inspite of the void which hurts real bad, you tell your self you need to keep smiling as they would not have it any other way.

Have you ever looked in the mirror only to see the cracks become bigger over time.You know now is the time to turn away.You don’t want to.As you don’t know if there would be one to look into if you ever turned back.But then you tell yourself, you just have to take that chance.Because if you didn’t you would never be able to see past those cracks again.

Have you ever watched a loved one fall and hurt themselves.Though it hurts you more than them you don’t pick them up.You tell your self, if they didn’t fall today when you were watching over, they would never learn to pick themselves up on their own again.

Have you ever found some one crying.You wanted to ask them if they were ok,or just wanted to hold their hand or even give them a hug.But you didn’t.You tell yourself, may be they really need that moment to themselves.

Have you ever looked yourself in the eye and spoken to yourself.Had one of those man to man conversations.Told yourself, it doesn’t matter if you’ve been stupid or feel defeated, tomorrow is another day.

Time to look me in the eye methinks.

31 Comments »

  1. Apy said,

    July 13, 2006 at 3:44 pm

    GOLD :)

    Hmm.. nice post… made a lot of sense.. had thought about a few things.. n surprised to see those in this list… :)

  2. Gangadhar said,

    July 13, 2006 at 4:40 pm

    Touchy one,EU..

  3. Vikram said,

    July 13, 2006 at 7:31 pm

    Awesome post… :)
    But yeah, I have looked myself in the eye and spoken to myself… but half the time i don’t understand what i’m saying.. it’s so confusing right? both me and my reflection speak at the same time… how do we resolve it?? :P

  4. dwaipayan said,

    July 13, 2006 at 9:18 pm

    it’s wonderful… the best post by you.. it’s so true and touchy.. i just love it

  5. lazy leo said,

    July 13, 2006 at 10:36 pm

    beautiful words….and thought-provoking as usual….

  6. Vishy said,

    July 14, 2006 at 12:06 am

    Insightful writing. Very addictive!

  7. educatedunemployed said,

    July 14, 2006 at 4:37 am

    Apy:
    Gold Where??!!
    I am happy to know I am not the only one who goes on random thinking trips.:)

    Gangadhar:
    Wasn’t really meant to be.:)

    Vikram:
    You stop talking and listen.:)

    Dwaipayan:
    Thanks.So you are out of your hiatus, nice.

    Lazy leo:
    Thanks.

    Vishy:
    Thank-you.I’ve been told you blog too?! Wouldn’t I get to read?

  8. Ford Prefect said,

    July 14, 2006 at 2:00 pm

    nice …

  9. vishwa said,

    July 14, 2006 at 11:44 pm

    Very intimate and touching post edu. Good one.

  10. educatedunemployed said,

    July 15, 2006 at 5:42 am

    Ford Perfect:
    Nice Sounds familiar..:)

    Vishwa:
    Thank-you.

  11. sharda said,

    July 15, 2006 at 6:42 am

    Very impressive and thoughtful blog.

  12. ankur said,

    July 15, 2006 at 2:58 pm

    dude…wassup man…!! u turning old..! i mean..yeah…its awesome tht u think…and tht too on such significant lines…

    ..but then…all the time..?? i want to see the fun MG come up…! will the real slim shady..plz stand up…

  13. educatedunemployed said,

    July 15, 2006 at 3:31 pm

    Sharda:
    Thank-you.

    Ankur:
    Rule #2767839 I ain’t no dude.
    I am old.:(
    I have a reputation to uphold here you know thinker, philosopher, boring old and nerdy…:P
    For the fun me,you will have to meet me.:)

  14. Abaniko said,

    July 16, 2006 at 4:05 am

    We need more conversations with ourselves lest we make enemies instead of allies of ourselves. Becoming strangers to ourselves is the most tragic thing that can happen to us.

  15. ankur said,

    July 16, 2006 at 4:31 pm

    shit…after ur blog..meeting u cud be quite a challenge. anyways…dekh lenge..! so when and where…?

    u comin to delhi rite…u better…!

    ~a

  16. Rohit Talwar said,

    July 16, 2006 at 11:11 pm

    Holy jeezzzzzzz. How very true.

    A clear and resounding yes, yes, YES.

  17. karuna said,

    July 16, 2006 at 11:11 pm

    Yes! Yes! Yes! Yes! Yes! Yes! Yes!
    and Yes!!!!
    ar you reading my mind???
    i love it!

  18. educatedunemployed said,

    July 17, 2006 at 11:39 pm

    Abaniko:
    Becoming strangers to ourselves is the most tragic thing that can happen to us. Totally agree.

    Ankur:
    What has changed after my blog?

    Rohit: :D

    Karuna:
    Not really.:)

  19. kaunquest said,

    July 18, 2006 at 12:25 am

    Thoughtful, brilliant!

  20. Pratik said,

    July 18, 2006 at 3:16 pm

    Continuing in the spirit of the post…

    Have you ever watched your thoguhts as you debated a sensitive issue? It’s not funny how emotions cloud our thinking and how you stupid you appear to yourselves at times…

  21. Spew said,

    July 18, 2006 at 5:29 pm

    i say what! you do live upto your reputation!! fabulous post!

  22. greensatya said,

    July 19, 2006 at 12:40 am

    Wow EU, those are interesting thoughts !

  23. educatedunemployed said,

    July 19, 2006 at 4:13 am

    Kanquest:
    Thank-you.

    Pratik:
    Almost the content of my next blog.Now will reserve it for another time.:)

    Spew:
    i say what! you do live upto your reputation So I have a reputation that is doing the rounds.*Gulp*.Well,thank-you.

    Greensatya:
    Thanks.:)

  24. Spew said,

    July 19, 2006 at 9:44 am

    you knew that, didn’t you?!!
    And thanks for the comms on spew! :-)

  25. Rita said,

    July 19, 2006 at 10:27 am

    I guess, all of us have had such feeling at some point of time in life. Howcome I never reflected on this before?
    Nice post! :)

  26. Pratik said,

    July 19, 2006 at 12:16 pm

    oh shoot… so will have to wait longer for that one, eh.

  27. educatedunemployed said,

    July 19, 2006 at 1:26 pm

    Spew:
    Actually I didn’t, but I guess no one gets spared within the ISBians.:)

    Rita:
    I am sure you would have, just didn’t articulate them.Thanks.:)

    Pratik:
    Yes!:)

  28. Thoughtcurry said,

    July 19, 2006 at 5:58 pm

    the green goblin had a man to man conversation with himself. the next thing you know mary jane is dangling from a bridge. :-).
    Nice thoughts.

  29. educatedunemployed said,

    July 20, 2006 at 6:39 pm

    Thoughtcurry:
    HEHEH..
    Thanks.

  30. Sorabh Raina said,

    July 22, 2006 at 11:30 am

    i like the title very much

    also the post)

  31. educatedunemployed said,

    July 22, 2006 at 2:53 pm

    Sorabh Raina:
    Thanks.:)

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